Emotions

[gemini_pratama]

The emotions come in "two flavors".

"Positive" emotions or those based in "joy", and there are "negative" emotions or those based in "fear". In other words, there are the emotions that make you "feel good" and emotions that make you "feel bad". In addition, we all know that emotions aren't like on/off switches.

When you feel an emotion, you usually feel an amount of it. Maybe it's just a little, or maybe it's very strong. But the reality is that when an emotion starts to become too strong, it literally takes-over your mind and body. In some situations, this can be a very powerful POSITIVE thing for a person.

[gemini_pratama]

The emotions come in "two flavors"

"Positive" emotions or those based in "joy", and there are "negative" emotions or those based in "fear". In other words, there are the emotions that make you "feel good" and emotions that make you "feel bad". In addition, we all know that emotions aren't like on/off switches.

When you feel an emotion, you usually feel an amount of it. Maybe it's just a little, or maybe it's very strong. But the reality is that when an emotion starts to become too strong, it literally takes-over your mind and body. In some situations, this can be a very powerful POSITIVE thing for a person.[/quote]

[GREENTEA]

Originally Posted by gemini_pratama

The emotions come in "two flavors".

"Positive" emotions or those based in "joy", and there are "negative" emotions or those based in "fear". In other words, there are the emotions that make you "feel good" and emotions that make you "feel bad". In addition, we all know that emotions aren't like on/off switches.

When you feel an emotion, you usually feel an amount of it. Maybe it's just a little, or maybe it's very strong. But the reality is that when an emotion starts to become too strong, it literally takes-over your mind and body. In some situations, this can be a very powerful POSITIVE thing for a person.

OO..gitu yha...

[~mamamia~]

Originally Posted by gemini_pratama

The emotions come in "two flavors".

"Positive" emotions or those based in "joy", and there are "negative" emotions or those based in "fear". In other words, there are the emotions that make you "feel good" and emotions that make you "feel bad". In addition, we all know that emotions aren't like on/off switches.

When you feel an emotion, you usually feel an amount of it. Maybe it's just a little, or maybe it's very strong. But the reality is that when an emotion starts to become too strong, it literally takes-over your mind and body. In some situations, this can be a very powerful POSITIVE thing for a person.

Biasanya sih, cewe yang lebih banyak dikuasai emosi... klo cowo gimana ya...

[alindri]

Originally Posted by ~mamamia~

Biasanya sih, cewe yang lebih banyak dikuasai emosi... klo cowo gimana ya...

udah dari sononya Mia,kalau cewe itu 80% dikuasai emosi selebihnya baru akal sehat........

[budojon]

Originally Posted by ~mamamia~

Biasanya sih, cewe yang lebih banyak dikuasai emosi... klo cowo gimana ya...

kodratnya sih cowok lebih terkendali mbak....
tapi tidak selalu demikian.... sangat bergantung pada pengalaman masa kecilnya, perlakuan dan didikan keluarga, perkembangan bersosialisasinya.... dan keinginan untuk menjadikan dirinya sebagai laki-laki seutuhnya.....

[~mamamia~]

Originally Posted by alindri

udah dari sononya Mia,kalau cewe itu 80% dikuasai emosi selebihnya baru akal sehat........

Originally Posted by budojon

kodratnya sih cowok lebih terkendali mbak....
tapi tidak selalu demikian.... sangat bergantung pada pengalaman masa kecilnya, perlakuan dan didikan keluarga, perkembangan bersosialisasinya.... dan keinginan untuk menjadikan dirinya sebagai laki-laki seutuhnya.....

Iya tuh, kadang aku juga pengen at least 50-50 gitu, soalnya abis ngelakuin sesuatu sesuai emosi, trus jadi nyesel...
Untunglah, sahabat2ku sering kasi masukan, jadi at least akal sehat prosentasinya naik... kali sudah 75-25 hehe...
Tapi seperti yang mbak Alin bilang, memang kali itu kelebihan wanita ya... jadi ga bisa dirubah...

[budojon]

Originally Posted by ~mamamia~

Iya tuh, kadang aku juga pengen at least 50-50 gitu, soalnya abis ngelakuin sesuatu sesuai emosi, trus jadi nyesel...
Untunglah, sahabat2ku sering kasi masukan, jadi at least akal sehat prosentasinya naik... kali sudah 75-25 hehe...
Tapi seperti yang mbak Alin bilang, memang kali itu kelebihan wanita ya... jadi ga bisa dirubah...

Itulah kenapa guru ku sering bilang wanita itu unik...
berikanlah segenap hatimu dan ungkapkan dengan segala rasa saat kau berbicara padanya...... dan jangan palingkan tatapanmu dari matanya ketika seiap kata mengalir dari bibirmu....... maka kau akan mengerti isi hatinya

[~mamamia~]

Originally Posted by budojon

Itulah kenapa guru ku sering bilang wanita itu unik...
berikanlah segenap hatimu dan ungkapkan dengan segala rasa saat kau berbicara padanya...... dan jangan palingkan tatapanmu dari matanya ketika seiap kata mengalir dari bibirmu....... maka kau akan mengerti isi hatinya

Hehehe... itu mah ungkapan "emosi" CINTA ya Budojon...

[alindri]

Originally Posted by ~mamamia~

Iya tuh, kadang aku juga pengen at least 50-50 gitu, soalnya abis ngelakuin sesuatu sesuai emosi, trus jadi nyesel...
Untunglah, sahabat2ku sering kasi masukan, jadi at least akal sehat prosentasinya naik... kali sudah 75-25 hehe...
Tapi seperti yang mbak Alin bilang, memang kali itu kelebihan wanita ya... jadi ga bisa dirubah...

he he he.. itu dia.....kalau mau kita bilang kelebihan bisa jadi...
makanya banyak kaum hawa yg gampang banget nangis alias cengeng....karena menurutkan perasaannya..
dan banyak juga yang cepat marah.. ya karena ngikutin emosi juga..

tapi kalau kita mau sesungguhnya bisa lo kita belajar untuk mengendalikan yang namanya emosi sehingga dalam tindakan keseharian kita.......perlahan -lahan sudah mulai berimbang antara emosi dan akal sehat......

saya juga baru mulai belajar koq Mia.. masih suka marah2 soalnya, apalagi kalau liat dapur berantakan. he he he

semoga kedepannay bias lebih baik.....yuk kita kendalikan emosi